Why my husband sleep on the couch (10 possible reasons From Really men)

why husband sleep on the couch in marriage

Why my husband sleep on the couch is the question that has asked for decades now and even today it still relevant. The direct answer to this question it is with in your husband him self because he is the one who is deciding to sleep on the couch instead of sleeping with you in the bed. So if you really want get a proper answer to this question you should ask your husband why he likes to sleep on the couch more often in these days .

However we as a bloggers we do understand that it can be hard for you to ask your husband that question. That why i have decided to write this post for you with 10 things that can make your husband to sleep on the couch instead of sleeping with you in the bed.

Now the answer to this question

“Why my husband sleep on the couch?”

Does not come from me in this post but it comes from the man those who are actually sleeping on the couch instead of sleeping with their partners on the bed . So if you are afraid to ask your husband this question you should read the entire post because they are very high chances for you to find one or two reasons for sleeping on the couch that will correspond to the ones for your husband.

So without any further let jump straight In to the 10 things that makes man prefare to sleep on the couch instead of sleeping in the bed.

10 reasons why your husband choose to sleep on the couch

1. He found the couch to be more comfortable than a bed

2. He is currently angry with you

3. You are destructing him on the bed

4. He is not in the mode of having sex

5. He just want some personal space

6. He Love pets too much

7. He is addicted in to video games

8. It is Too cold or too hot for him in the bed room

9. He used to sleep on the couch before you even meet him

10. He wants to call someone while sleep

1.He found the couch to be more comfortable than a bed

why sleeping on couch in marriage

This is the most answer i have found online while i was doing my research about this topic .For some reasons most men find sofa to be more comfortable than bed. One of those reasons is back problem more especial after long day of hard work.The other reason is the easy to fall in to sleep if you are having problems with sleeping such as isomia. I will give you a links to read more about this later in this article .For now just think about the way we sleep ,

When we sleep we like our bodies to lye horizontal and elevate our heard a little bit higher than the rest of the body .If you look the way that big sofas are designed you can see that they look to be perfect for us to archive this position .Even although pillows can help elevate our heads but the army rest for sofa seems to be more good to elevate our heard s in to the position that we want to archive.

Now of course sofas or couch are different but most of hem have similar designs. So that is the number one possible reason why husband may pre fare to sleep on couch and not not with you in the bed and if it is that reason he will see that it easy for him to fall in to sleep when he is at the couch than when he is on bed .That will make him sleep more often on the couch and come to sleep with you only if he want to have x with you .

I am not suggesting that sleeping on he couch is better than sleeping on the bed. Sleeping on the couch does have it own side effect such back problem and neck pain as well as leg pain.How ever as just mentioned above sofa and couch are different and people are different so if your husband does not feel any of those side effect it mean his sofa is really comfortably for him.

2.He is currently angry with you

HE Is angry with you that he sleep on the couch or his back to you

If you have been in relationship for long time now with him then you probably n know that arguments can rise up at anytime in relationship because of mistakes and different opinions .So i you have been doing the things that upset your husband recently ,they are very high chances for him to go to sleep on the couch because it can be hard for him to fall in sleep with someone on the side who have upset him.

But what it is that you could possible done that upset him?

Well they are a lots of things you can do that will upset your husband .Below is the short list of them .

1. talking about your previous relationships

2. Throwing too many pillows in the bed

3. Throwing your clothes every where n the room including couch

4. Sleeping with your pets on the bed

5. Rubbing him with your cold feet or hands while he have been full wormed under cover

6. Hate the things he loves

7. wanting to read his massages and emails

8. Shouting him in front of others

9. Asking sill questions

10. and more

The list is almost endless so what i will do is that i will leave a link at the end of this post for your convenient. So now i hope you see that they are many things you can do that will upset your husband .Now you must ask your self if there any thing you have done to him , if you are feeling guilt about something then you need to talk with him.

3. You are destructing him on the bed

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As just mentioned above that one of the things that can upset your husband is touch him with cold hands or feet while he has been full warmed under cover. However in my research non of the men did complained about that in destruction while sleeping .The majority of men complained about one thing that is too annoying , and that thing is something that you can guess even your self,

Guess What?

It is Snoring .

Snoring or breathing loud while sleep is so destructing .The problem with it is that you can’t tell if you are snoring or not because you don’t actually see and hear what is happening around you while you sleep.

How ever Snoring and cold feet are not the only destructions in the bed .Your baby can also create a destruction in the midnight. That might not be a big problem for you as Mum however for your husband it can be a problem .The reason for that is in the following day he would have wake up early as possible and go to work .You might not go to work when your baby is too young so you can sleep anytime during the day when your baby sleep.

Think about your husband who will be working on the following day.He might be too tired for the entire day if he didn’t get enough sleep.So his solution in this situation is to go and sleep on the couch so that he will have enough sleep. If it is the baby which destruct him , i don’t think you should be offended with that.

4.He is not in a mode of having sex

Maybe you want more but he want less or he want more and you give him less. Either way of the two can chase your husband to sleep on the couch .If you want more than he can give you than he might be afraid to tell you that he can’t give you more and if you give him less he might be angry with you and try to punish you by not coming to bed to sleep with you .

5.He just want some personal space

Does your husband do office job?

If yes then this could be the reason why he doesn’t come to sleep with you in other times .Most of the office job requires a lot of brain energy and it is easy to find your self thinking about your work or the projects that you are working in.In other words office job create a stress more than outdoor job do and when people are stressed they want to alone so that they can think more about the solution to the problem they have.

So if your husband is working in the office do expert situations like this in your relationship. Sometimes he might sleep on the couch by mistake, may he was watching TV just distress and suddenly he found him self fallen in to sleep.

6.He loves pets too much

This is why why do guys have to sleep on the couch

Some people love their pet a lot in such a way that they want sleep with them because of their soft fair and warmth.That can be either dogs or cats or any other pet you might have in your home.Your suband might find them to be more warm and softer than sleeping on the bad.So because he can’t brig cats and dogs into the bed he will decide to go and sleep with them on the couch .

Don’t forget that this does not come from my mind and experience but it come from the actually men who choose to sleep on the couch with their pets rather than sleeping with their wife on the bed.

The issue of pets might come from your husband only but it can be your issue as well.Maybe it you who loves pets too much and now you want sleep with them, But because you are afraid to go sleep on the couch with them like your partner do , you now deciding take them into your bed when you sleep.

Then that can chase your husband away from the bed .In-fact one men in my research did mentioned that they choose to sleep on the couch because his wife bring cats or dog in the bed ,and those two things they are too destructing .If you think enough about them you can imagine that you won’t be total free to stretch your self on the bed if they dog or cat ,because every time when you stretch your self you will have to think about your dog or cat .

7.He is addicted in to video games

husband sleep on the couch because of games
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almost 50 percent of he men who give provided answer to this question said they sleep on he couch because they want to play video games .They said they played video games a lot until late night and on that point the distance in to the bed is too long ,That why they decide to sleep on the couch .Others do that to avoid destructing you while you sleep in the midnight.

If you are thinking about Games , you might think ( my husband is not mature enough because he playing games and games are things for kids. That is wrong not all games are for kids , they are games which are written PG 18 that means that they ware developed for people who are 18 + in age .

So before you said your husband is not mature enough look for the types of the games he played first and see if they are rated for kids or not.

8. It is Too cold or too hot for him in the bed room

Bed rooms are usually the smallest rooms in the entire house , So it is very easy for them to get too hot in the summer days. So if you don’t have any ceiling fan or window fan in your bedroom ,then falling into sleep might be hard for both of you .

 That can be another reason why your husband choose to sleep in the couch. If it is this reason that make him sleep on the couch then he will sleep on the couch more often when it summer or during any hot day.

9.He used to sleep on the couch before you even meet him

It is possible that sleeping on the couch is his habit ,When he was young he used to sleep on couch a lot after playing games or watching TV much and his parent was covering him with a blanket later at night .Almost every one be in that situation but the more grow we change that habit .

So if your your husband is sleeping on the couch for no Reasons then it possible that he is continuing with that child habit. How ever in my research they ware very few men who sleep on the couch for this reason .

10. He wants to call someone while you sleep

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Before you even start reading this post you probably knew that this reason will be included in this list .So here it is ,However in my Research they is No one who admitted that he sleep on the couch because he want to go out while his partner is sleeping or call someone near by to come and sleep with him on the couch .Instead one men did mentioned that his wife was used to chase him out more often in the bedroom at night .

When he chase him out he used go and sleep on the another room .One day when she chased him out to sleep on the room , The man come in mid night to unlock the door of heir bedroom when he unlocked it he found another men in the their bedroom with his wife .That men and that women were marriage for years and he mentioned that he has done everything for his wife he even bought her a car .I can’ say what happened to their relationship after that .

The point to that story is if your husband is sleeping on the couch mare often without a reason then you should start monitoring him .When you wake up in the mid night and he is not in the bed with you go and check him if he is sleeping or not , if he is sleeping bring him a blanket like his parents used to do .That won’t have negative effect in your relationship .Instead it might take your relationship in to the next level.

Wrap up

Now those are 10 possible reasons that can make your husband sleep on the couch instead of sleeping with you.Now you might be wondering what will you do about this issue.

Should you talk with him or you must ignore this ?

The things you can do to solve this problem in your relationship depend upon the reason why your husband is sleeping on the couch .

If your husband sleep on the couch because he love pets too much, you need consider bringing them on the bed when you are sleeping.If he sleep on the couch because of Tv you should find away of having Tv setup on bedroom. If you think he is angry with you , then you have to talk with him.

I think you get the idea

If so below are links that i have promised early in this post

Pros and cons of sleeping on the couch

https://www.healthline.com/health/sleeping-on-the-couch

Sleeping Position

https://bettersleep.org/research/survey-sleep-positions/

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