Relationship Test: is your partner really Serious about you?
So you have been in relationship with your partner for good while now and you still not sure whether your partner is serious about or not. The only thing that can help you in this case is relationship test.
They are more options for testing relationship in these days .The most common one are quiz .If you go to Google and type in relationship test you will find a lots of online software and apps with quiz to help you .
The problem with this method is that software and apps are bots they don’t have feelings like us .So making personal decision based on those bots can’t be good i dear. The method that I think is better is to ask special questions to your partner and get answers.Those answers will show you how serious is your partner about you.
But what are those questions?
This entire article is about those questions so take a class of water and read. Please keep in mind that the follow questions can be asked to male or female for the entire article I will assume it the female who want to test her partner .I am doing that to avoid too many him/her in the article so that you can read it easily .
Notice please don’t ask your partner any of the following questions before you read the word of advice at the end of the article.
9 Relationship test questions
- If you can win a billion what will you do about your life?
- What is the biggest lie you ever told?
- Where do you see you self in the next decade?
- . When making a decision, do you make them following your mind or hearty?
- Have you ever felt like your heart is broken?
- What is one thing that you are most grateful of in your life?
- what can you choose between happy and successful?
- Do you enjoy spending time with people?
- When was the last time you cry?
1.If you can win a billion what will you do about your life?
This is the great start question for this interview because is more like a general question so your partner won’t even see that you testing him. If you start with questions that include Love and just keep on asking them again and again your partner will notice something and perhaps he might give you false answers. The are more answers you can expect from this questions such as buying new car , new house ,travel the wold etc.
A person who is serious about you will include changes that he can make to his home with that money. The changes he can make to his home reflect how much does he can about his family .If he does not include anything that touches his family that mean he does not care enough for his family and if does not care about his family how can he be serious about you ?.
2.What is the biggest lie you ever told?
This is the second good question for these interview .This question will show you how much does your partner trust you with his secretes .If your partner trust you more with his secrets that mean he have a lot trust in you .That will make you trust him as well and when you trust one another your bond will be strong .The stronger the bond the more serious your relationship will be.
To see that your partner trust with his secretes he must give you two or more lies he ever told without too much hesitation. Your partner can hesitate a little to tell you all his lies because some of them are too secretive and stupid .That fine how ever he must give you at least two or three lies to pass this test .If your partner hesitate too much and he give you one lie that mean he does not trust you and by not trusting you he cannot be serious about you.
3.Where do you see you self in the next decade?
Question like this it a future question that will reveal the plans that your partner have for your relationship.Like question one you can expect more answers to this question. The most common goal that seriously couple have for their relationship is to live together with or without children in their apartment .
The only legal way to do that is marriage .That mean if you don’t hear anything about marriage in the answers of this question, your partner is not serious about to stay with you for long time.
4.When making a decision, do you make them following your mind or hearty?
The answer to this question will come from your partner so they is no answer to predict this time .A men who follow his mind when he make decision is more like a robot which has no feelings for humans .
Men like that are the ones that violence women by hurting them when they have disagreement or drunk. So if your partner is like that, chance are he might hurt you in the future and don’t even feel sorry for that.
5. Have you ever felt like your heart is broken?
They is no good or bad answer to this question .This is just a question that will help you to understand previous experience of your partner in the relationship. Studies show that 65% of relationship fail in the first 3 months .That mean a lot of people have go through the pain of break of up .
it might happen that your partner have been their as well .Knowing the reason why he break up with his first partner can help you to know the things that you need avoid to do so that your relationship won’t end like the his first one.
6.What is one thing that you are most grateful of in your life?
This question is specific for testing the level of appreciation to your partner which is important for the health of relationship .Appreciation is what encourages most couples to do good things for each other without asking one another .Being in love with someone who does not appreciate every thing you do for him is not good .
That is the reason why other couple don’t buy gift for each even on days like valentine day, women’s day or father’s day. For your partner to be gratefulness he must have many things that he is grateful for and you must be included on those things .Your partner must be grateful to be in relationship with someone like you if he does not then he is not really serious about you.
The other method for testing gratefulness to your partner is to look for the word thank you from your partner when you have done something good for him. For example if your partner thank you on the regular basis for cooking food for him ,wash and iron his clothes that is the sign of gratefulness .So you don’t have to ask him question number 6 because you know that he appreciate most of the things you do for him .
7.what can you choose between happy and successful?
At this stage you might know that a person can be happy without being successful by the way that most of people think .The majority of people think a person is happy if he have all the money he need to buy and do the things he likes.
That is not true they are things that money can not buy such as happiness , love ,time and friends .happy is the good answer to this question if you partner choose successful that mean he can sacrifice a lot of his feeling for the sake of money .
That include the time he spend with you and his family .That is good for other reasons but for others is not .They are too many bad things that your partner ca do for the sake of money such as selling drugs ,stealing ,scam and maybe even become a assassin .
8.Do you enjoy spending time with people?
The answer from this questions won’t show you how serous is your partner about your relationship but it will show you the matching of your personalities with your partner .It good to be in relationship with someone who is introvert if you are introvert or extrovert if you are extrovert .You see the advantage of that by the time you want go out with your partner to have good time .
if your partner choose to take to place where they are too many people you are scared of chances are you won’t be happy to be on that place .That is a problem because next time you won’t want to go out with your partner for having funny .instead you will prefer to go out with your friends only. The outcome for failing to have good time with your partner is nothing but break up or divorce.
9.When was the last time you ?
Crying is essential for realising too much anger in our minds .Every one cry at some point it just that some people cry inside so it hard to see the tears. The aim for this question is to see how much does your partner hide his feelings .Most man don’t cry because they believe that men don’t cry .So when they are angry they decide to smash anything near to them just to realise anger. Think about what can happen to you if you are near to him on that time?
I am sure you can see now how danger it is to be in relationship with someone who hide his feelings .That does not stop their many people have suicide them self because they kept too much feelings and thoughts on their hearts and minds.
Other questions you can ask
- What does true love mean to you?
- What does Friendship mean to you?
- What always makes you angry?
- Have you ever been hurt in love?
- Have you ever been hurt in love?
- What is one thing you’re most proud of?
You can get more other questions like the one above in the internet but most of them make it clear to your partner that you are testing him and most of them are not even relevant to in to the seriousness of the relationship.
Word of Advice
- Don’t ask your partner these questions everyday again and gain.
- Choose the right time to ask him. The right time to ask these questions is when it is you and your partner only with no destruction’s (it can be your home outside your home )
- After you have chosen the right time ask him all these questions on the same day or at least half of them.
- The reason for that is to get honest answers as possible. so if you ask these questions more often ,your partner will notice something and perhaps prepare the answers for your next questions.
The aim for this test is to help you to see how serious is your partner about your relationship. The seriousness of your partner about your relationship will depend up on the amount of time you have been in a relationship .If Your relationship is new you might not get all the correct answers you need but that fine as you grow up your bond will be stronger and your partner will be more serious about you .
For that reason
I am not by any mean recommending you to break up with your partner if it happen that he fail this test.